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*omm_00
writes:hi, my girlfriend has me wrapped around her little finger,She has recently been going out with a friend that gets her into mischif, they both meet up with an old friend that i call my ARCH ENEMY!, The truth is im a verry jellous person who loves her to much, but i know what a lads head thinks,i know that he like my gf, it makes me want to hurt him, however when my girlfriend finds out what im about to do she treatens me with breaking up with me. WHY?. ive aked him to leave her alone but its doesnt seem to work. ive asked her to shop texting and going to see him, all i get out of her is "ill do what i want" sometimes i loose it and walk off when she knows im mad she will come after me appoligiseing i cant stop them WHAT CAN I DO?
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reader, tomm_00 +, writes (19 January 2010):
tomm_00 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you both for your help it was needed:) A*
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (19 January 2010):
 I too am a very jealous person and know where you are coming from! I suggest you talk to your girlfriend and explain how much this 'flirting' upsets you. The fact that she comes after you when you are obviously mad suggests that she likes pushing you for this kind of reaction as it reaffirms to her how special she is to you. I would tell her her behaviour is not what you would expect in a relationship and try to get her to see that she wouldn't like it if it was done to her. Your Arch Enemy obviously finds it great fun taunting you so he is just going to continue. Try to not let him see how much it gets to you- walk away if it starts. If your girlfriend doesn't stop then she doesn't really respect you or your feelings and is probably not the one for you long term. If she doesn't stop do you really want to be with a girl like that who treats you so badly.
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reader, tomm_00 +, writes (19 January 2010):
tomm_00 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for that:) i feel tho that the only way to stop hom is to put fear into him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): Im afraid this is a situation that no one apart from your girlfriend and your "arch enemy" can control. The best thing to do is to explain to her how you feel and if she doesnt seem to respect you or she continues to hurt you, then the harsh possible reality is that maybe she isnt the right woman you should be with.
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