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*assie t
writes:my boyfriends want to have a baby but im only 14 and his 13 we dont even live in the same town, i want to have his baby but not this early. i need help what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): What for him to even think about that its just beyond me..you two ar way to young..your not even old enough to care for a baby let alone your body isnt either.
Just tell him straight out..that you dnt want a baby right now..
Think about your education first..
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reader, chorn95  +, writes (16 February 2010):
Whaaaaat?! Tell him that your way to young and a baby would ruin your life. I'm sure you will do the right thing. i'm fourteen and babies arn't even crosing my mind. Good luck.
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reader, Caring Stranger +, writes (16 February 2010):
 You should not have a baby with this guy and you need to tell him straight that this is not going to happen.
you are too young to have sex. i dont know what the law is in the USA but here in the UK you need to be 16 to legally have sex. 14 is too young. please dont do it. im aware that if you wanted to have sex then nothing i could say will stop you so if you do please please please take precautions and use a condom. This will help to protect from pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.
you do not want a baby at 14...its way too young. at 14 you do not have the money or life experience to be able to care for a young life. Tell this boy that there is no way you will be having a baby with him. He cannot force you.
good luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2010):
Tell him you're too young and that you don't have enough money and that it is illegal. Bear in mind that this guy doesn't seem like the 'one' as well. He seems to want far too much far too soon, and I think you might be better finding another guy.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 you just have to sit him down and tell him. At your age you shouldn't even be having sex.
Tell him the truth, a baby is too big a deal for you to be handling it.
And anyway, take it from someone who grew up without much of a dad, a child really needs both parents, it's soooo much better, and what's your bf planing to do? move in with you? get his parents to buy you a house? It's very unlikely for that to happen.
good luck
xx
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