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41-50,
*onfused83
writes:About 4 months ago, the man I had been with for about 4 or 5 months, sent me a text message and told me that he had met someone else...yes, a TEXT message! At the time, he had been out of state for about 2 month for his job, but we continued our relationship with phone calls everyday. Since the text message, I had not heard from him one time until yesterday. He called to apologize for what he had done to me..he seemed very sincere and said that he wanted to make things right. Then today he decided to tell me that 6 months ago on the night of my birthday, he messed around with my "best friend!" Not only that, but I was sleeping in the next room! He said he wanted to clear the air and tell me the truth and start over...if I would give him the chance to anyway! Then he called again tonight and told me he loved me for the very first time and that he wants to marry me! Please help! I have no idea what to do!
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (16 February 2010):
Vagrants and winos propose to us all the time too!! So don't be flattered by his proposal. He is trying to manipulate you. Then when he has you, he will be good for a little while until your other friend sleeps over. Forget him.
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reader, Xernyhs +, writes (16 February 2010):
Is this serious? Ditch that idiot.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 February 2010):
So here we have a man who dumped you by text for another woman, cheated on you on the night of your birthday with your best friend, and has now proposed marriage after one day. Cut him out of your life entirely. He hasn't changed at all. I promise if you have anything to do with him, you will end up seriously hurt. Have nothing to do with him at all.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 He is saying to you matter of factly, now I have done enough screwing, I am ready to get married. Screw him! I seriously don't understand why no argument is going on. He proposed to you just to make you stay. Maybe he got drunk. If I were you I won't even bother trying to understand him. Don't text, don't call, don't email. Say it in his face that it's over.
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