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writes:there is a girl i really like, i call her like 4 - 5 times a day. sometimes i feel that she is ignoring me.what must i do ? sometimes she ignores me when i ask her out Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 "GoodGuy11" gave you superb advice, and I'm pretty much going to repeat it.
Seems like you're completely smothering her. So, chill out and give her some space to appreciate you, to notice you, to miss you. If you call her this much, you will reek of that horrible cologne known as "desperation" or seem like you're way too insecure, needy or possessive to date. So, simply back off and give her some room and do your own thing for awhile. Let her get curious.
Take her hints and chill out. Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, goodguy11 +, writes (16 February 2010):
First thing is stop calling her 4-5 times a day. She has a life and she can't talk to you all the time. You're making yourself too available and desperate so just back off a bit. That's why she ignores you when you ask her out. Now if you want to get a date with this girl you gotta play it smooth. Live your life and go out. Call her once in a while but not everyday. If she calls her tell her you're busy with something. If you can go out on a date with someone even better. I can't guarantee you a date with her but my advice to you is don't make yourself seem so clingy. Girls like guys with confidence. If she sees you dating other girls then shes going to think that there's something about you that is attracting all these girls and she will be curious. Good luck to you buddy.
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