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writes:My ex and i split 5 months ago. he had feelings for someone else so i left him. the thing is we never stopped keeping in touch, he tells me he loves me every day and recently said he wants us to get back together. however he's been in a relationship with this girl for about 2 months and has asked me to wait a couple of weeks then we can be together. Why doesn't he just end things with her right now?
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reader, Ria1 +, writes (16 February 2010):
He sounds like he's stringing you along, or that he doesn't want you to meet someone else! I seriously suggest you, get on with your life and tell him, when he's left her to let you know! Please please don't wait for him to split with his girl, you'll be wasting your time, you are worth better then that! :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2010):
Because he doesn't really know what he wants. If I were you, I'd cut contact with him. How long until he changes his mind over you too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): He is keeping his options open? 'hedging his bets'? he hasn't decided 100% what to do, or is not sure that you are 100% about him .. or doesn't want to upset her. The only way to really know the answer to your question is to talk to him openly. Feelings don't suddenly die and he may have feelings for both of you but in different ways. If he really does love you then he needs to make a commitment to making a go of your relationship and not keep you both hanging on. He is being weak and selfish - maybe he realised he made a mistake with her but there is a good chance he wants to have his cake and eat it! do you really want to be with someone like him long term? Good luck x
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