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*airyDust85
writes:Ok...This is the situation...This guy1 and I had feelings for each other since we were kids...I am now 24 an he is 25...He never got the gut to ask me out...He kept sending mixed signals...Finally I decided to move on with someone else and was in a six year relationship, and this guy1 wanted to get with me but I have never cheated so I didn't go along with it. He ended up moving on with this girl...Finally I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years due to some issues...He saw that I was available and took the opportunity to be with me even though he had a girl at the time...He said they were having issues and he was trying to get rid of her...He said that he loves me and I'm the one he wanted...We spent some time together and I fell hopelessly in love with him...My mom found out about the relationship and she was upset when she found out that he had another girlfriend...Things got heated and he tried to get rid of the girl several times but he saw that I was going through some issues with my parents over the whole thing...He was intimidated by my mom and instead of breaking up with her, he broke up with me saying that he loves me but he just thinks that its best him and I break things off for a while. He still called me after we broke up, he went on vacations for almost 3 months and he still called me while he was away...When he came back he and the girl broke up...its been like 5 months since he and the girl broke up...We talk every now and then but we haven't spoken about us getting back together...He had only told me that he is afraid to get his heart broken and that he doesn't want to get in a relationship right now and that he is giving himself a time out...I haven't gotten over him as yet...I still love him...I cant see myself with anyone else...I need him back in my life...what can I possibly do to get him back??? He is still single!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): Thank you so much...I'm really trying to be patient and I'm just hopeful that all will work out for us...We'll just have to wait n see where it goes...its just that when i see him i dont know what to do with my self lolz
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reader, goodguy11  +, writes (16 February 2010):
Spend time with him as friends. Let him know that you're there for him when he's heartbroken. Sooner or later he'll see that you really care about him and he'll get over his fear of being heartbroken again. These things take time so be patient. In time he might ask you out again. Good luck to you.
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