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writes:Ok so here's the deal; I like this guy a lot. And I'm really comfortable with him more than any other guy. We went out twice before and he ended up lying to me both times. The first time he cheated on me and the second time he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me for a long time and after 2 weeks he ended it. Now usually I would just ditch the guy and move on. Wouldn't even be friends with him. But for some reason that I don't even know I can't do that with him. I can't even get mad at him for 30 seconds. So I'm asking for advise: what should I do? I can't walk away but I don't want to be his little bitch that he can just pick up for some fun and then ditch me when he's done. Help?
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reader, missSamanthamary  +, writes (17 February 2010):
i completely understand whats happening with you , i went through the same thing with this guy before he asked me out but it wasnt exactly that bad.he didnt actually cheat on me there two times where he ksised other girls but only one of the times we were actully starting to get serous. i no its hard for u to walk away when hes proabbly all you no , the only advice i have for you is dont let him treat u like shit , tell him that if it happens again its over for good , i no u posting ur coment on here isnt so everyone will tell you to leave , i no that you want people to be like ya just tough it out , do what u think is best for ur self , if u really care about this guy and strngly think u can be with him and make things work then hang in there but if u find urself seconed guessing it or find ur feelings for him slipping away then dont let ur self get more heart broken , good luck is all i can say this a decision u have to make for ur self :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 February 2010):
 This is one of those things that is good to learn early in life.
Learn to say no when people treat you like a doormat or with disrespect. Dump the sucker and ignore him. If he wants to hook up, tell him no thanks, we tried that and it sucked.
You need to understand that YOU deserve people around you to treat you with respect. ALL the time, not just when they want stuff from you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 February 2010):
Well you better walk away, or he will continue to walk over you. He has cheated twice, so he won't stop now. He doesn't care about you and he doesn't love you. Move on and focus on your life.
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reader, CBell +, writes (16 February 2010):
Your far to young to be worrying about relationships. Clearly you are not meant to be with this boy or you would not continue to split up. The best thing is to end it to keep yourself ands him before either of you get hurt?
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