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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Whenever i masturbate or my boyfriend plays with me, after rubbing my clitoris i get the feeling i need to pee, i carry on because i know this is when im about to cum but just as i get the peeing sensation, my clitoris begins to become very painful and i can no longer handle it being touched as it hurts too much, therfore i am not able to cum. Any suggestions on how i can cum with the painful sensation occurring?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (17 February 2010):
 Too much direct stimulation can be too much. An experienced lover knows how to adjust, whether orally, with hands or both. I think it is kind of a natural thing about monitoring her responses and adjusting to bring a woman to climax. It's an art. Some women need increasing stimulation, as with the tongue and lips at her clitoris, while others want it to become very gentle as she nears orgasm. A man just has to sense and know how to adjust, and each woman is different.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (17 February 2010):
 Try and stay away from so much direct stimulation and work around it. The clit will become very sensitive and even more when you're aroused so let your bf know that and see if it works better. This is normal, try the areas around it and see what you like so that you can tell him details. Be verbal as he is playing with you and it should all work out. He is probably just in the mind set that the direct and fast approach is the best.
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