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30-35,
*uke16
writes:Hi people basically my problem is i've been confused about my sexual orientation for a while now. It all started about a year ago when i made friends with this guy and we became best friends really quicky and became really close and i started getting feelings for him that i've never had for other male friends. We always hang out and as time has passed my feelings have grown stronger and i feel like i'm in love with him, sometimes i feel that he may feel the same way for me as i do for him because of the way he looks at me and he always says he can't bear to lose me and somtimes he even says he likes me in that way but it usually sounds like he's joking. I'm not sure if i should tell him how i feel or not because i don't want to lose him as a friend. So should i tell him? if yes what would be the best way to do this? Sorry that this is a long question and thanks to those who take the time to answer :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): Ive been where u have been And about the same age too Due to your age it might be hormones that are makeing u feel the way you do and that the fact that you have a very strong friendship going together thats also making you feel the way you do As you said you havent got the same conection with your other male friends and its good that you have found a strong bond but build on it dont rush into anything more i did and lost what i held dear just keep on what your doing let things happen if there ment to be then it will be
will be intresting to know on how your doing best of luck
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reader, hopelessXO  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 It sounds like this guy may like you. Before you tell him how you feel maybe ask him if he's serious about his feelings or not. But if you really think that this guy has the same feelings as you then try to bring it up causually. Don't talk to serious to fast or else you might scare him away.
Hope this helps, best of luck!
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