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He's clearly not into me any more but why?

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Question - (16 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *yperbunny writes:

Hi Guys

I AM PUZZLED?!?

I was seeing a guy that I really liked for about a month and then went to Thailand for three weeks. We live 10 minutes away and the sex was amazing. We spoke whilst I was away and he said he missed me, then when i returned I went and seen him the very next day, he seemed excited - then I go to his house spend a few hours with him.. when I was with him he didnt seem as affectionate as he was before I left and I havent heard from him since... 3 weeks on.. having tried to call him and text him a couple of times.

CLEARLY - he's not that into me anymore.. but I'm trying to figure out why?? I came home looking really nice, all tanned up and glowing..

any sort of reasoning with this??

Hmmm :S

x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2010):

You may have been sleeping with him too early without getting to know him, and now he's moved on. Always spend time getting to know a guy first so you know what he really wants.

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A male reader, Flyguymyeye United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2010):

Loads of possible reasons. Most likely ge lost interest during the time apart, could have met someone new.

You have tried to restore things, cast your line somewhere else, it may bring him back or you may find a better salmon.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010):

Not to be harsh but it could be that you were sleeping with him within the first month and now he doesn't class you as girlfriend material or it could be the fact that you were away for nearly as long as your relationship?

Either way I hope it works out for you xxx

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