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*nsearchofguidance
writes:Hi, I'm a 22 year old male with a girlfriend that I have been seeing for the past two months. I have issues reaching climax and I'm afraid it's because I have been having gay urges lately. I'm fairly confident that I'm not gay; I am not sexually attracted to men and never have been. The problem I have is getting past these urges and to rekindle our sex life. How do I do this? I appreciate any advice thrown my way.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (17 February 2010):
 well, it seems to me if you've only had sex twice, maybe it's just performance anxiety; i would agree with strontium also...sometimes fantasies are just fantasies and not necessarily tied to anything you would actually want to perform in 'real life', that change of pace is what makes them exciting. i think you two just need practice, time, and emphasis on quality lovin' versus orgasm.
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reader, Lexi2010 +, writes (17 February 2010):
 Hey I know In too young to know for sure But IM BI-sexual.. And Pregnant... Im only 15...But you might be bi too... I didnt think I liked girls untill I madeout with one... but Im still highly attracted to guys... OBVIOUSLY(prego).
Maybe you should try new things.. If u feel a spark with men&Woman than ur bi... If she Really loves you.. then she will stand by your sexuality..
Im here if you need to talk.
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reader, Insearchofguidance +, writes (17 February 2010):
Insearchofguidance is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI find the idea of performing gay acts at certain times arousing; however, I do not walk down the street and find males at all attractive. As far as the relationship with my girlfriend goes, all is well. We only tend to see each other once or twice a week at the moment because we are both busy. The only other reason I see that may be inhibiting my ability to climax during intercourse is the fact that she is my first girlfriend and we have only slept together twice. I have gotten off blowjobs with her before, but when it comes to intercourse I can't seem to finish and I find it irritating.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (16 February 2010):
What are the gay urges if not a form of sexual attraction? do you mean that you're interested in the sex acts but not the guy? if so, if your gf is kinky maybe you can suggest her getting a strap on or something...
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