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writes:Heeey everyone , soo , i kinda like this one guy , and i dont think he has any idea that i do , usually he gets the girls he wants , so because he hasnt hit on me , does that mean he has no interest on me ?? should i "chase" him ? do some guys like being chased ? or should i just wait it out and see if he ends up "chasing" me ?? if i should chase him , how ???another question :palso ... there was this one guy at the beginning of the school year , i didnt like him , but i thought he was a really cool guy , and i didnt think he liked me at all , then we finally had a nice kind of friendship , ( only in class kinda thing ) and then our school semesters changed and i dont see him anymore , sooo the other day i was standing in line at the cafeteria at school with just one of my friends , and he came up to me , all by himself and was like heeeeey ( my name ) how come i never see you around anymore ? :) ..... then we talked for like two minutes ,, so question being , does this mean he likes me ? or am i blowing this way outta proportion and he was just being friendly ???? lassst question :) theres this one kid on my brothers hockey team , and hes one year younger than me , and ive heard of him , i dont really know him , but he thinks im " extremely hot " and i think hes kinda cute , but i never told him that , :) ... so we dont talk , at all , but ive heard hes really cool and i want to get to know him as more than friends , you know what i mean ? like come on to him ,? or should i get to know him as friends and then let him make the move. ? if youve read this far ... thankks so muuccch :)xoxox . Reply to this Question
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reader, Caring Stranger  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 ok the first guy.....do not chase him. if you like him then get to know him as a friend and see how it develops. by chasing a guy you will just end up looking a little desperate and this will probably put him off anyway.
Second guy...he probably is just being friendly. he may like you but it sounds like he was just being nice. you dont mention liking him more than a friend so i would suggest just keeping it as a friendship.
and the third guy....i dont think you should dive straight in and come on to him. He thinks your hot, you think he is cute but you dont know anything about him and you may not actually get along with each other. start chatting to him as a friend, get to know him as a person and then if you like him start some casual flirting and see how it goes.
Your only young and i think you should take things casually, have fun and just see how things go. try not to get yourself too confused with all these boys :-)
good luck xx
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 1st question: I'd say, just flirt with him a bit, don't come on too strong, just be nice, flirty and hint at the fact that you like him. People can start liking others if the idea gets put in their mind.
2nd question: A bit tricky, he could miss you a bit and want to try and get closer as a friend, but whether it's because he misses you as someone he fancied or as merely a friend is difficult to say.
3rd question: Get to know him a bit as a friend, see if there is a connection and if there is you could make a move.
good luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2010):
SLOW DOWN! :). You're a lovely girl, but to be liking three guys like this means that none of them is the right one, and that you don't know them enough yet. Spend more time getting to know all these guys before you do anything else. There are to many guys, and only room in the heart for one. So spend more time getting to know them.
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