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writes:Is it Ok to slip a note to a married lady letting her know you find her attractive and sexy? Reply to this Question
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reader, Hard_decision  +, writes (17 February 2010):
Lift her spirits in a different way other then telling her shes sexy... maybe send an anonymous bunch of flowers saying "just wanted to brighten your day a little" and thats it... no need to tell her shes sexy, if shes having self confidence issues in that department its up to her husband and her to change that, she could be depressed for millions of other reasons.. dont do it, shes married and it may make her uncomfortable whenever she see's you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe reason I asked is she seems to be depressed lately and I figured a nice compliment like that would lift her sprirts.
I happen to see it differently just because someone is married one shouldn't stop to let someone know you either find them attractive and sexy or that you admire them.
Many women are married thinking no other man will ever look at them the way they were when they were single and really are seeking outside valatation from other men to decide if they still have it so to speak.
I am not seeking an affair just wanting to lift her spirits.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 February 2010):
No. She's married. When she's single, fine.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (16 February 2010):
 To put it simply: No
She is married therefore off limits. If she suddenly decides to divorce her husband and is single then why the hell not, but in this situation it is absolutely not ok. Dont do it!
You can admire from afar, but that is as far as it should go. Just because you are attracted to someone does not mean you have to act upon it, therefore whenever you see her think to yourself "wow she is sexy" and that is all. I mean you dont slip notes to every woman in the street you find attractive, therefore there is no need to inform this woman of how you feel about her.
She would just think you are a little bit weird and would feel uncomfortable in your presence, so there really is no need to slip her anything.
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