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writes:Scenario: i'm getting 'close' to a girl and I go to put my hand downstairs but my heart races, so fast that I nearly pass out. What do I do? I have serious nervous issues, it's not that i'm afraid that i'll do it wrong, i'm not sure what it is. Should I just do it and hope I don't faint? Is this normal?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Caring Stranger +, writes (16 February 2010):
 this sounds like a classic case of nerves. This is completely natural for a first time.
You need to take things slowly. Make sure that you are both relaxed and comfortable. Try talking to her..there is nothing wrong with letting her know that you are nervous-she is probably nervous too!!
when you eventually take things further you will see that its not scary or anything like that and you can both start to enjoy yourselves. You just really need to take it slow and chat to each other.
Another quick note..and i dont mean to sound bossy but i think its important to say-----Make sure you have contraception available. Condoms are the best thing to use and will help prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. Enjoy exploring sex but please do it safely.
have fun!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2010):
It's just nerves. You won't get it wrong. I would slow down a bit and maybe ask her what she would like so you know you're doing the right thing.
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