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writes:I have dated 3 guys, and 2 of them have cheated on me (cheated on 7 times between both my exes) and now i have a new boyfriend we have been dating for 1 year and 3 months, i recently found pictures of a naked chick on his phone, he doesnt know i found them, he bought me a promise ring, and swore he never will or never was cheating on me, im so confused is he cheating on me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i know thats its from after we were dating they were never there before, there is 2 pictures same girl, and there are other porn pictures on his phone (cartoon) they dont bother me as much.. But these do.. There of the same girl.. And i once saw him texting someone else saying he loved them... I know they arent from here so its not physically.. His parents know me.. All his friends and this person looks like there older then him.. If anyone saw him cheating on me they would run to me.. So its just thru texting but the point is is that he still was doing this
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): well to be honest he may not have done something physical but finding naked pictures of someone else is pretty bad if you ask me and i would count that as cheating!
if hes asking girls for pictures it means hes flirting alot with that person and probably alot more, which could mean he is/has been cheating physically with other girls, you can't just pretend you don't know you have to tell him you've found them and don't be nice about it else he will think he can do what he likes and push you around and you don't want any guy to think that about you!
guys can lie very easily so dont be fooled, if he admits the picture and possibly anything else he has done then maybe you can forgive him for it if thats what you want, but id be careful and don't be niave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): Was this naked girl on his phone from before he met you? Check the date on it, on most phones the date a picture has been added to the phone will be displayed under "information" about the picture. Could be he got it from some porn service and treats it just like the porn on his computer? Is it more professional looking?
By the way what were you doing on his phone? If you found it by accident, then confront him with it and ask what its about.
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reader, LibertarianLou  +, writes (16 February 2010):
The question is, do you consider the pics to be cheating? If you consider others sending him pics then yes, he is cheating. It's up to YOU what you consider acceptable and what you don't.
Why don't you ask him? "Hey, I came across this picture on your phone. I hope you don't mind me seeing it? It's not a secret is it? So how do you know this girl...?" And watch his reaction. If he's nervous, hiding it from you, whatever... he's not to be trusted. He might say "Oh, funny story... my mate sent this pic to the wrong number, god I forgot that was still there. Delete it if you like!" Or whatever.
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reader, mimi09  +, writes (16 February 2010):
ok first of all you should confront him on what you found on his phone . if its someone he knows personally u need to make a desicion . Maybe your just looking for the wrong guys.
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