A
female
age
30-35,
*olanda7
writes: I love a guy more than my life,but he's 4 years older, from a different religion and background, and has gone abroad 4 years on studies. My mother says to look for other options, but at times understands my feeling for him. He loves me too, and wants to keep this going, and I truly feel happy with him more than anyone else, so what should I do? Look for other options, or stay for him? Which is wiser? My heart says I love him, and to wait, but what is the right thing to do? Thank you... Reply to this Question Share |
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male
reader, The Realist +, writes (17 February 2010):
Keep your thoughts open to new men as they come around so that you don't pass up a really great guy for someone who might end up finding someone else. Live your life to the fullest and when this guy gets back if you two atill have the same feelings for eachother then he's the one, but you won't know for sure unless you have seen what other guys are compared to him.
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