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writes:dear readers....plz help me.i have been with my boyfriend for more than 3 yrs now.... though few months back we broke up, so technically we are not in a relationship but things hvnt really changed. we both love each other madly.. we broke up because we fought too much. things are extremely tough for me bcz i desperatly want to win him back... while he says he wants my presence in his life always but relationship is a bad idea...anywaz the thing is, he used to like a girl many yrs before he met me. we both have been loyal to each other thruout. the other girl.. doesn't know anything about my guy liking her... they were gud friends. so that gal as a friend tried contacting him many tyms while he was in college with me.. but because of me he never really maintained contact wid her.now that I've broken up... she somehow contacted him again and she calls him like once in 10-15 days.... do you think its frequent??my guy has told her that he still is in a relationship wid me... we haven't told anyone about our break up... even on orkut his status is comitted. Whenever that gal calls him... i get really upset. i have genuinely tried a lot to not mind her calling him but i failed. I'm getting deadly restless now.I told my boyfriend not to contact but he was angry because all thru the relationship I was extremely possessive (one of the reasons why we broke up) plus he says he's not doing anything wrong.. we are just normal friends and I am getting tense for no reason. but i am not ok...i really am not. i feel depressed whenever i think about her... sometimes I get dreams about her... i feel sick inside. What do I do?Help me please!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 You are imagining too much. You should stop your imaginations and worryings and accept that everything happens for a reason and you cannot prevent anything from not happening.
If your b/f wants to be with the other girl, he would have gone over to her. You cannot prevent it.
If you are meant to be together, you will be . Make peace with yourself and accept the reality .
Don't let your imaginations run wild.
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