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female
age
36-40,
*anatsia
writes:My ex asked me a week ago if I wanted to try again. He said that his feelings for me havent changed over 2 years and he really cant lose me from his life. And I'm the best thing thats happened to him and he cant wait to tell people we are back together. I told him we should slow it down and not tell anyone until we are sure.But yeh so now this week he asked me if I felt something was missing. I asked him if he was over it. And he said maybe, maybe not. I then said okay, well I'm willing to make it work but I dont want you to feel forced. And he then said, well when I kissed you I didnt get the same feelings I usually did. I then suggested we maybe try another date and if he still didnt feel it we would end it then. We couldn't find a time that suited either of us. And I then asked, do you think this can be worked out? And he replied, I dont think so. But lets see. I then said, No its okay lets leave it. If you want to delete me its fine, I dont care. Good night. And he then said he would understand if I never wanted to talk to him and that he was sorry and I must have sweet dreams. I then just said its your choice if you dont want to talk to me.So yeh, He hasnt deleted me. And yeh I really would like him to realise he made a mistake and come back. Is there anyway I could do this? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 February 2010):
He's already made his mistake. He got involved with an ex who he thought he loved, and who he really didn't. He thought that you were the one, so came back. But after trying again, he decided you are not the one. You're wasting so much time with this guy. He said he couldn't live without you, yet here we are a few weeks later and he's changed his mind. This is why you should never get involved with an ex again. It just makes everything more difficult. He isn't interested, and you need to move on.
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