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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years now. He's currently in his second semester of his freshman year of university and I'm in my second semester of my sophomore year of university. We go to different universities 6.5 hours away from each other. I have always been and always will be faithful to my boyfriend. In fact, I someday want to marry him (or so I though). My boyfriend has claimed he's been faithful since university started.Well, I was a little on the horny side the other day and he wasn't around, so I decided to watch some porn and "help myself". I started putting in random words like "petite" and "doggy style" in the searches because I like those kinds of porn videos. Well, just for experimental purposes, I put in "drunk college girls" and I found way too many videos, let me tell you. Honestly, I'm not surprised, haha.I was watching one and right around a minute into it, I saw something that made my heart stop. I paused it and it was clear-as-day, my boyfriend having sex with another girl. I really can not mistake recognizing my boyfriend; I know all of his physical attributes inside and out and it was him! It's an amateur video and it was HIM! He was sucking on another girl's nipples and having rough sex with her. I wanted to (and still want to) throw up thinking about that.I haven't confronted him about it yet as I don't know how to approach this situation but I have saved the video to my laptop to prove what I've seen. What do I do about this? It's likely he was drunk as well and most likely doesn't remember it, but I have proof! That bastard betrayed me and now it's on the internet for all the world to see! It's humiliating and degrading and disgusting and I basically want to shoot him in the balls.I feel this surmountable feeling of seething rage and I want nothing more than to get some answers from him and perhaps, TRY and work this out. I don't want to lose the guy; I've loved him for too long and I can't deal with that kind of heart ache but how can I look at him anymore without seeing the other girl? Ultimately, how do I deal with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): Man, that sounds awful. I'm sorry it happened.
Don't go for the "I was drunk" excuse. If he's in videos then this was probably not an isolated incident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Oh boy, that must have been extremely tramatic, I cant even imagine. If it were me, I wouldn't want to be with him after seeing that but I know that it is harder to just leave someone when you've been with them that long. If you do confront him about it, I would have the footage on hand so if he denies it you will have backup, and I would also approach it in a strong detached manner (as much as is possible). If you do want to work things out with him, you dont want to start screaming and crying at him, he will not take it well. Best of luck
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