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writes:Well im think about sex for first time and i was curious as to how lads like a girls lady bits too like. totally shaved or not?? Because this is the only thing im self conscious about Helpppp !!!i really need your answers :D Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): Right thanks for your answers :DCan you now please tell me which of these styles looks like :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010): Well, as a partial emulation of the last answer, I'm an European teen, and I like a landingstrip, or nothing at all. Tidy is good, but if you go for tidy, go for tidy but really short hair. For me, it is extremely uncomfortable to go down on my girlfriend if she has pubic hair longer than 1-2 cm.
It's your decision whether you wax it or shave it, as waxing can be more expensive, yet shaving can cause a lot of problems if you're not sure how to shave exactly.
But for the most part, since you're only beginning to think about this, i would suggest you only wax/shave your bikini area, so there would be no peeping hairs, and everything's good!
But yes, keep them trimmed, if hairs get longer than 1 cm it's time to bring out those clippers/trimmers again :)
But that's just my opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): As a young American male, Tidy definitely, I either like it completely shaved, or a landing strip is fine. Aux natural is not attractive!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): hi! It depends what you are comfortable with. Usually its either a landing strip or all off that is the way forward. I personally don't like any hair there at all, i find it a lot cleaner without. Ive never been a big fan of hairy bits. Ive never encountered ingrowing hairs and ive shaved and waxed for years. I don't agree with the post saying that people who have it all off just want to emulate porn stars or end up looking like children - complete rubbish! Anyway hun its your choice but the modern more youthful lady does usually have a landing strip or nothing at all. Good luck and happy waxing!! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Hello, for your good I think you should only shave the bikini line, otherwise you may get ingrown hairs that are very unpleasent. Besides, some boys apparently like hairs in the downstairs area. Good luck!
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (15 February 2010):
 This is asked so very frequently on this site and surprise surprise...there is no one answer! Some guys like it all shaved off, some like it with a little landing strip, some like it left untouched! Heck, some may even like it with little flashing lights in there!
It really does not matter what your pubic hair looks like. I promise. Keep it trimmed and tidy is the rule I follow, and it seems to work just fine - I have never had any complaints.
Shaving it is very time consuming and when it grows back it is not nice, so keep it natural and just trim it when it is getting a bit out of control I say!
Some guys do like it all completely shaved off (if you do decide to do this then get it waxed - the growing back phase is no-where near as bad and as ugly as when you shave it). But I think if you have it all shaved off you are either trying to emulate a porn star which is just silly, or you end up looking like a pre-pubescent child which is just scary.
It really is up to you and whatever you feel comfortable with. Maybe try getting a bikini wax (this just tidies up the area and makes sure no stray hairs can peek out from your underwear or bikini). If you like the wax and can tolerate the pain then go ahead and get a brazillian wax or something along those lines.
But whatever you do - dont try and wax at home otherwise you will make a mess and end up with ingrowing hairs which look much worse on a girl than natural pubic hair! And avoid shaving if you can, again this just makes a mess and looks very ugly with the slightest bit of stubble. While guys might not like too much pubic hair, they think stubble down there is much worse!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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