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writes:I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we get along really well. I have very strong feelins for him and last night I told him that I loved him. I don't think that he could return the feelings. He told me that he loved me too, but I don't know if he meant it or not. Now I think that I may have scared him away. Should I have told him those three words? I haven't heard from him yet. What if he doesn't call me? I feel so stupid and ashamed. Reply to this Question
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reader, kelsey18  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 I've been here before! very recently actually. i was seeing this guy for around a year and one night i was leaning on him resting my head on his chest, he was playing with my hair and i nearly blurted out 'i love you g****' then i stopped myself cos i realised what i was saying. So i thought about it for the next few days questioning myself if i felt this way or not. So i texted him and said 'I really want to say something to you but i don't know how your gona react' i eventually told him and he never said it back he just said 'wooow i didnt know you liked me that much!' things basically got bad between us from that point onwards and now we're not together anymore.Just be careful you don't want to say something to soon. But just because i had a bad experience does'nt mean you will the guy i was with was a jerk anyway. If your guy said it back then thats a good start it depends on the way he said it really, did he say it with emotion? or just yeah i love you too? see how things go if he gets distant all of a sudden then you know you've said it too soon for his liking. This doesnt mean that your in the wrong though women tend to fall in love faster than men anyway. x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 February 2010):
You only told him last night. Don't feel stupid and ashamed. First of all, he might just be thinking about what you've said. Secondly, if he does run and doesn't get in contact again, then you know he's not the one and that he has commitment issues. Just give it a couple of days, and if he hasn't got into contact, try contacting him. If nothing happens, then you'll know he's not Mr Right and that you will can do better.
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