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writes:I met this guy a while ago on holiday (lets call him *fred), we only talked for a couple of days, but then we had to go home. He's irish, I'm scottish. We stay far apart, then he added me on msn. He asked me out, and I said yes cause I did quite like him, he finished it, and I was quite pleased because it was so hard being so far apart! Then he started to say he loved me, but I wasn't do sure, I mean he's only 14.. Isn't that a little bit young to consider yourself 'loving' someone? Then about 4 months later he asked me out again, he actually begged for so long! I had to give in, so we went out for what, a week? But I couldn't take it anymore, so I finished it. He said he was heart broken and that he still loved me, and he begged for ages trying to get me to go back out with him.. He even said he wanted to come live with me, marry me, and have children. That freaked me out! I'm so young, I didn't want my future planned! Then about a month later I was getting feelings for a boy, I told *Fred and he went mental! We wern't even in a relationship, and this was weird when he said he only wanted to be friends. He still goes on about our breakup and still begs, it is really annoying me now.. Should I just block him out my life completely? Or is that a stupid idea? Thanks
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reader, goodguy11  +, writes (15 February 2010):
This was just bad from the beginning. I guess you care about him or else you wouldn't come on Dearcupid asking for advice. I think you should tell him if he wants to be friends at least to stop the way he is acting towards you and let him know its making you really uncomfortable. If he doesn't clean up his act then block him. And don't feel bad if you do because he has to learn that the way he is acting will not be tolerated by any girl. I know he's young and immature so its nothing out of the ordinary. What was suppose to be a little innocent internet relationship became serious for him. So learn from this the next time you consider ldr. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Block him out, he'll get over it. You are at an important part of your life, where distractions like this are not helpful. You need to concentrate on school these last couple of years and get the exam results you need, without some guy throwing you off course. Block him out completely, change your phone number, cancel you MSN account and become annonymous to him... Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 February 2010):
I think you should block him. He seems a bit dangerous to me to be honest. LDR's at such a young age almost never work out. And this isn't even going anywhere and he went mental when you said that you were having feelings for another guy. Best to leave him out of your life.
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reader, Fornorina +, writes (15 February 2010):
 I am kind of going through the same thing, but I'm a few years older than you and I've not had any problems... Yet.But I think you two are both too young to be considering a long distance relationship as it is... It's extremely difficult, and quite stressful. I think *Fred is just jealous that you are building feelings for someone else, who, I must add, lives near you.You shouldn't block him out of your life -*Fred clearly has feelings for you, whether he actually shows or tells you about them.
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