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What did I do wrong?? Have I scared him off already?

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Question - (15 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

i met a guy on plenty of fish dating website.. he was really sweet and would call me every day and would actually ring when he says he would.

i met up with him on friday.. we went for a ride.. got something to eat..did a bit of kissing.. he said i looked nice.. he didn't ring me that night.. he did on the next day he said he'd call back buy he didn't.

yesterday he rang me told him i was going concert..he wanted to see me after but he didn't call.

i dunno but i think hes pulling away...i thought he liked me,..he asked me to be his girl and now hes acting all weird..:(

what could I have done to scare him off?? oh and i dont ring him or text him ever.

i think maybe hes seeing other girls huh??

thnx...xx

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (15 February 2010):

Denise32 agony auntSeeing other girls? Maybe, but not necessarily. Look: you have been out on one date. Talking on the phone, and by email, plus going out once, doesn't make you a couple.

POSSIBLY he was put off because he wanted to see you yesterday, but you had already made other plans - not unreasonable to have other plans.

It doesn't sound like you have done anything to frighten him off.

I'd say that since he rang you yesterday (Sunday) it's only Monday evening now. Give it some time. What's the rush? See if he calls again in the next few days. If he does not, you COULD call yourself, and invite him out........it's not as if you've been calling or texting him, so showing some interest in this way is appropriate.

Just take it slow, and enjoy! Good luck.

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A female reader, Miss Karma Louise United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2010):

well he could well be seeing other girls .

i mean so what you had a date nothing came of it..

move on.

just because you had a date it doesnt mean you must be together forever.

dont worry!! just move on to another guy.

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