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I'm at my wits end on what to do next...

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Question - (15 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I need help im losing sleep over this guy n look forward to the moments im with him but when im around him i get shy! hes 21 im 20 the whole world tells me i shouldnt be with him cause of his past cheated on his ex gf....(smh i know) but ive been attracted to him since i was 12. cried over him cause i always thought he was to good lookin for me. but that was back then. now were older saturday i saw him he came up behind me smelled me and said I smell like candy n hugged me. then i was sitting he pulled my hair and ran. then he went to a party, came home at 5am then he came to a church program and dropped off some of the kids at 7am (im guessin cause he knew i would be there).

At the program he sat relatively close to me and asked if i would ever marry him, i just laughed, he pulled my hair again, then held my hand, the thing is i knew he liked me in 2008 into 2009 but ive seen him with other girls and even though it never lasts he would always end up right back bothering me like flirtin an stuff. im just at wits end cuz i have been dreamin about him since last year. im just so confused plz help! what shud i do?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2010):

You know you're walking into a mess and heartache with this guy. He has already proved he can't stay committed, and to be honest he sounds very immature. The last time I pulled a girl's hair because I liked her was when I was six. I think you need to listen to the world and not go out with him. You will be hurt.

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