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writes:Hi i would really appreciate some advice.I think im a lesbian and im attracted to one of my very good friends. She is a lesbian and is literally the most beautiful girl i have ever met in my life. she is amazing. We met at uni and have just been great friends for the past 18 months. I havent actually told her i might be a lesbian because i havent really come to terms with it myself, ive never been with any girls before and dont even know if i will enjoy it. All i do know is that when im around her i get butterflies in my stomach, i want to touch her, i want to kiss her. We were at a party recently and got a tad drunk and anyway she told me that she thought i looked really beautiful. i just laughed it off because i was embarrassed and went to talk to someone else. about 2 hours later i was dancing with a random guy and she came up to me and said that she had missed me for the last couple of hours and was jealous watching me dance with random men. i just laughed because i assumed she was being silly. we danced together for a while then went and sat on the sofa....she then said that she really felt like kissing someone that night. i laughed and said yeah me too. she then stroked my hair, leaned in and kissed me. it was the most amazing kiss i have ever had in my entire life. after we just looked at each other for a moment, she smiled and said i was amazing and then we just laid down together and went to sleep.The next day she didnt mention anything about it and was acting as though nothing had happened. she hasnt mentioned it since and neither have i. i sometimes feel as though she gives me lingering looks and she has been hugging me a lot more recently.But what do i do now? i really want to kiss her again but im worried that she only did those things and said those things because she was a bit drunk. im scared to say anything to her in case she rejects me and i embarrass myself. i care about her so much....please helpxx
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (15 February 2010):
 It looks like she doesnt want to scare you by been to full on or trying to make you talk about what happened, she is been nice and taking it slow waiting to see when you are ready to talk about it, so go for it! talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. good luck and tell me how to goes x =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): By the sounds of things she fancies you and you like her so just go for it! I highly doubt she will reject you, she came onto you after all! Good luck, let us know how it goes! :-) xx
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