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*elphegor
writes:This girl and I were friends for 2 years and a half then suddenly i began to like her, but i was several month of me liking her sometimes but not feeling that i have feelings and i couldn't like understanding whats going on...then i began to like her for real and when i was sure I went and opened up to her. From what i understood she didn't mind giving it a shot then when we talked about it for real she said that it is weird and she is lost, the person that she likes she quickly like him after meeting him not after beeing frndz and stuff and its better if we stay friends. After few weeks she tell me that she want to give it a shot then after 2 days she changes her mind and nothing happened between us.Then after 2 months we made out but I think she considered it as fun because b4 making out she was showing me some signs but after we madeout she showed me it was nothing serious. We kept on playing mind games with each other like we always do, and fighting all the time like we always do, and hitting each other ofcouse not seriously but fooling around.then after another 2 months she started giving me stronger signs and we talked about it she said that sometimes she have feelings for me, sometimes she don't, she likes me but she can't see me more then a friend. how the hell does that make sense? she also said that she hate it when she talk in words about getting close to someone, it should happen alone and if something should happen between us to let it happen alone.then after that in three weeks, i was seeing stronger signs from her and we roughly madeout and there was passion and we kept making out for like more then an hour and then after we finished she kept hugging me and kissing me and beeing next to me...that shows that it wasn't just fun....... then the next day things were awkward between us and it kept like that for the few days after then i knew from her best friend that she couldn't see me more then a frnd in her head.what does that mean? let me analyze her character... she is really moody, she changes her mind a lot, she is scared of really loving someone, for example last year she used to like this guy a lotttttt and when he actually started to do some moves she ignored it she told me because she likes the idea of liking him but not beeing in him its like she lives in the fantasy world... she once told me that she likes a guy to be kind to her and another time that she likes him to be rude she likes emotional drama like they make each other mad and insane and she doesn't value her friend and the people that love her but instead the people who are rude with her...shes frigging confusing me.
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