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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was exchanging some emails with a female friend of mine who I like. We'd been teasing each other about some things and she made light of something that had happened earlier between she and I and some other friends of mine in which people's feelings had been badly hurt. Her comment made me really angry. I wrote her an angry email about how what she was saying wasn't funny because a lot of people had been hurt by it and I told her her email tone could be infuriating.She wrote back immediately and apologized for her tone. I took a day to cool off and wrote back to her apologizing for being aggressive toward her (NOT for what I said). She said it was okay and called me a pet name.My question is for the ladies. Do you think I hurt my chances? Did I look like a crazy man for getting angry? Did I look like a wuss for apologizing like that? It was hard to do. I'm pretty stubborn and don't like to be wrong.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (15 February 2010):
 well unless you say what happened its hard to guess whether you were right or wrong too/ but at the end of the day its your desicion on how you felt at the time.. who doesnt like being wrong. too many people email and dont actually talk and that where wires are cross perhaps she ddnt mean what she said the way it was said maybe she did but unless you were actually talking via phone or web you cant actually be angry! because its just words! whether or not its hurt your chances or not. i had something similar happen and i knew i wasnt in the wrong but i had no proof so i had to say sorry but things between us never got better infact we dont really talk no more and i know that is the reason why whether hell admit that or not i dont know. keep talking to her if your interested whether she is back or not time will tell.. good luck keep us posted aphex xx
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