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female
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36-40,
*imi09
writes:I been with my boyfriend ( yeah not even married ) for almost 9 yrs and we have 3 kids together... Weve been thru so much and I still love him alot. but he is so different now, he changed completly after HE was unfaithfull..... hes never affectionate only if he wants sex and if I tell him Im depressed cuz i feel like he doesnt love me and he not affectionate enough he tells me he doesnt wanna get into it he never does, if he sees me cry he really doesnt care ,... instead of a kiss on the neck or a hug i get a slap on my ass ( basically some thing about his sex needs ) we never have a time alone we Hardly ever go out together he spends more quality time with his friends than me . I feel so lonely I want a man who can treat me like his queen not his sex slave .. even tho our sex life is so awesome which is sometimes unusual in a couple or 9 yrs with 3 kids but its not all i want .. and he really doesnt get it i dont know what to do ! i feel so lost.. by the way I left him and im living at my moms house for 2 months now but were trying to work it out and this is his way of tellin me he loves me.. i know u might think im blind cuz the answer is in my face but i dont feel strong enough!Help!
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reader, Nitru  +, writes (18 February 2010):
 I don't know. I'm not a very good expert on long relationships with kids involved but I'd probably speak on behalf of the kids.
I grew up in a basically broken marriage and my parents got devorced when I was 7. I don't like the fact that my parents live separate and have separate lives, but neither would I have fighting parents beside me. And I'm grateful for the fact that my parents do get along with eachother unlike my friends parents who don't even talk to eachother.
So I supose like try and get things sorted with him even if it means no relationship and just friends.
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