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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:so Ive been with my husband for 7 years. I love him to death and only want to make him happy in every way. but we have one issue. He is only my 2nd partner, and im like his 6th or 7th. I had a lot of growing up to do sexually, like watching porn, using toys ect during sex. Well when ever we go to an adult store, i ask him what he would like, and he says "whatever you like honey". And I tell him what i like, and he will say "that sounds good". And i get frustrated bc i feel like hes not communicating with me. We do the same thing while we're having sex too. I will ask what he wants, and he will say "whatever makes you happy", and thats it. He wont tell me to do anything for him, unless I tell him something i want. I dont know if he is embarassed to ask or what. Recently i found his porno stash of videos he had been hiding, and i took them out, and laid them on our bedroom tv in clear sight to let him know that its ok, and i wont get upset about it. I asked if he would like another movie in the store because i knew he was a movie guy, but he never said anything. So after the store, we ate out, and I asked what kinds of things he likes in bed. and you guessed it.. "it doesnt matter whatever makes you happy... so frustrated, i started throwing some things in there that i like, and he would chime in with a little something that he liked after me. What does this mean, and why is it so hard for us to tell eachother what we like? we shouldnt be embarressed weve been together forever! What should i do?
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