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writes:Why is it guys my age just want hook-ups?i m 18. why arent there guys who want meaningful relationships? fine, i want sex. but i've been keeping it reallllyyyy long for the one but why hasnt it come? how long do i have to wait for someone whom i love and who really loves me back?should i wait some more? or should i just have sex with this guy who just wants sex and not a relationship? i m so confused! why am i even asking this question? maybe i m just upset that i want to make love with this person i really love but he doesnt love me back. and that makes me doubt losing my virginity to him! my morals are against my desires right now. what should i do? i need help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): There are great guys who want serious relationships at all ages. It's less common in younger men than older ones, but it's not like 90% of all young men aren't willing to get serious about anyone. I would guess it more like 2/3rds aren't serious at the most. If you're not meeting any of the serious ones, then eventually you have to start looking at how you choose the guys you date.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 February 2010):
Just wait for the right guy. Sadly most guys your age are only interested in sex. However, there are some who want actual relationships, so continue to wait and find a decent guy for yourself. There will be one somewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): Don't settle for less than you want. If you want sex then sure why not, if you want a relationship then don't settle for this guy.
You have to patient! Plus, how would you be able to meet "the one" if you're busy having meaningless relationships with guys who only want sex.
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