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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok so my boyfriend and I have recently started having sex... for the past month, he's never given me an orgasm. I love him to death and I'll never leave him because of that, I just wanna know how to fix this. it's always disappointing to know that he can always get his fix when I never can. any time I come close to getting an orgasm, he cums first. I can give him blow jobs that last forever but he can't have sex for more than 5 minutes? today he came in under a minute, it was really embarrassing to him and he just had me give him a blowjob later instead of sex.... how can I help him learn to last longer so he's not embarrassed and so I can finally experience an orgasm?please don't waste your time telling me I'm too young to have sex because I'm going to keep having it regardless of what you say.thank you so much!3
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): Oral sex for you, women need to learn to love their bodies the same way men love theirs especially their genitals. Oral sex is even more important for women then it is for men. Men can orgasm with sex easily, for women it can be extremely hard but oral is a very easy way. It's intimate and amazing!! I orgasm way faster and it's just so amazing.
Although, men tend to suck at it at first, you have to guide him.Also, stop being so shy about your body, most men dislike women that aren't confident in their own skin. You want to act like an adult? Good for you, now start doing that by loving what you have. You have a vagina not an ogre down there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): i can only orgasm when my boyfriends on top but i have to move with him to insure my clit is being rubbed just right. My boyfriend cum fast when he goes really fast so if thats the case whisper in his ear slow down baby real sexy like lol and wheb yu think he bout to come whisper and tell him baby dnt cum yet yu feel so good lol .. i stroke my boyfriends ego to get what i want maybe it will help yu 2
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 February 2010):
 It's a common problem. First, you both are inexperienced, especially your boyfriend who knows nothing about pleasing a woman (girl). If he knew anything, he would know how to please you first, or at least stimulate you nearly to orgasm, but that takes experience and knowledge about women. He is clueless, or he would do it, but get him to read the following in this Web site's archives by entering these words:
Double M on female orgasm
Double M on climax
Double M on cunnilingus
Double M on clitoral complex
Double M on G-spot
and more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow! that's so smart. and that makes perfect sense because we don't make out a lot unless we're messed up lol so for him to get hard I give him a blowjob then he'll be like "ok let's fuck" just like meaning he's hard enough (his penis is not that big so like... idk hard to explain him lol) and then we'll have sex. like I'm pretty uncomfortable with my body so I don't really like people feeling down there but I'll ask him to touch me first or something.
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reader, cheryl9245  +, writes (16 February 2010):
well in my experience a little foreplay before sex can get you a little closer to having your own orgasm this way when u start to actually have sex you will be alot closer then just kinda startig off..foreplay kinda gives you a head start kinda gettin you half way there then he could possibly finish you off..or if you need to get him to give you your orgasm first either touching or oraly then finish off with having sex.
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