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anonymous
writes:Hello,I'm kinda frustrated and so my Gf, when she gives me a handjob and a blowjob, and after I Cum, I got frustrated and Mad and I sooo need a space from her, and I'm kinda about to leave her, and she starts crying and etc and the next day, we're back together. Why is that happening to us ?? What's the reasons ?? I can't understand my actions after Cumming
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): It is normal for men to loose interest in sex or even get irritated about anything remote to sex after cumming. It is a male response to give sometime for the regeneration of sperm and a natural way to prevent men from abusing them self.
In a relationship this does not work because for the women it is the opposite they need more sexuality or sex after an orgasm so you need to learn to be more sensitive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): When a man has an orgasm from someone he loves then the good feelings remain. So ask yourself if you are really in love with her. Also, if you spend a lot of time watching porn, the girls there don't need love and attention; when you are done you just switch off your porn and do other stuff. So you have to learn to not be such a jerk when it comes to a real woman; unless you want to be her worst ever.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 You lost control and she felt used. Part of being a man is to be in control. She was doing nothing wrong and was shocked by what's supposed to be a normal body function. When you are about to cum tell her to stop. Rest for a few minutes. If your intention was to have sex with her then the purpose of a handjob and a blowjob is to get you hard. Controlling orgasms is key to a satisfying sex life on both sides. Normally couples hug each other after sex to reassure themselves. I don't require a hug. I am a very open person.
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