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writes:so i have hurt a girl and maybe got her heart broken dunno and after that she doesnt want to talk to me anymore or even answer my sms, i sent her apology letter but she didnt change and still doesnt want to talk to me,, one month after i sent her a valentine gift 2 days ago and she sent me a message saying im not angry or something but nothing is gonna be the same as before i just want to stay neutral with you.. but she is feeling jealous on me when im with other girls, she is being near me lately, catching her looking at me manytimes...if she really mean it to just be like that? why is she doing like that?,, i mean if she doesnt care she wouldnt think of getting jealous or keep her mind in this thing,, for examplei usually sit with a spesefic girl in my class sometimes but we are just friends and thats all, so one time she saw that girl sitting alone with an empty chair beside so she left the girl with her that they are together all the time!!!!,, and directly went and sat with that girl which she doesnt sit with just to not let me sit with that girl..another example is that she keeps looking really good daily, like fixing her hair all the time plus wearing nice things that i havnt seen before!!she looks sad these days and she is not the same girl before??? she changed 360 degrees!i dunno what happened really!does it make sence people?
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reader, luke16 +, writes (16 February 2010):
I think that she still loves you but she doesn't want to admit that she does, it could be a pride thing, she doesn't want you to see it's affecting her so she puts up this barrier to try and keep you away but eventually that barrier will crumble which it seems like is already happening since she doesn't like seeing you with other girls.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2010):
Girls have a habit of giving men the silent treatment before attempting to make them jealous and such. I think this girl is attempting that with you. She doesn't really want you to go with anyone else. Instead she wants you to regret what you've done. It shows that she's hurt, but also that she's a little immature. If you really like her, I would suggest you ask to talk to her and just tell her you're sorry face to face. However if she still declines, you need to move on and just ignore this behaviour. Yes, you did hurt her. But if she continues to say she's not interested then gives you these mixed signals, then she's just not worth the time. It's been a month, and even with a lot of work she is still giving mixed signals. If she isn't straight about how she feels, then move on and just leave her in the past. Dont' sit there running around wasting time.
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