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How can I get over him when its so hard because I work with him?

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Question - (15 February 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *hrisy25 writes:

Hey everybody. I've been talking to this guy from my job for two yrs. We are ten yrs apart. It was really

Good at the beginning but not its not the same nomore. He saids he doesn't wanna be with me because he doesn't want

Another family. But he's been talking to someone else while he was talking to her while he was talking with me.

And I honestly don't think that's the reason why he wants to stop talkin to me.

I feel like he likes her more than what he like me

And now I feel diss. I just want to forget about him

But how can I when I still feel the same for him

And he move on. But he's still wants to have sex with me and I don't want to.

Cause I feel use and he doesn't even call me. Only when he wants.

What can I do to forget about him? when its so hard because I

Work with him. And do u think he was feeling the other girl then me? I personally

Think so.I don't want to get hurt again so I don't know howe to really move on.

But I feel lonely and mess up inside.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2010):

I understand 100% how you feel... I was dating someone at work 13 years older im 21 he is 34... He was technically in a relationship with a child and couldnt leave because he needed to keep a roof over his sons head and was worried about going to court fighting over his 3yr old son... I understand because I have 2 kids. After it ended I found someone and I AM NOT HAPPY! The guy I am seeing is great but I am still so in love with the man from work... I am sorry to tell you this but it will be SO HARD to get over him, love never just fades away... however it sounds like its not love that he shared with you... My advice is accept it for what it was a sexual relationship and its over now, now its time to find true love!

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