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writes:A friend of mine made me feel so ashamed and embarrassed when she was making fun of me because I have a small penis...I am 17 years old and it is about 10 centimeter (4 inch) long, and 9 centimeter (3.9 inch) circumference, when it is "hard".Is it normal to feel this way? Should I feel ashamed and embarrassed about it?How can I make her not laugh at me? Are most girl like this? Girls will not like me if I do not have a large size penis??Please help, I feel so embarrassed right now.
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reader, KernowWarrior  +, writes (10 March 2010):
Hi, One simple question, are you over weight? I recently lost 6 inches from my waist and my penis grew in length by 1.5 inches, the fatter you are the less sticks out. Hope this helps
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reader, AntPain  +, writes (15 February 2010):
There are so many tiny things to consider with penis size. I personally also used to be really conscious, but then you have to ask yourself a few different things. For starters, what the difference between having big hands or feet and then having a big penis; their both body parts.
If you want to look at it slightly sexually 'its not the size that matter, its what you do with it 'aswell. Furthermore, the average vagina is only 3-4inches long so actually you'll cover the whole length with no problems...its can stretch but it doesnt do much extra.
Girls definetly go for the relationship stuff more than giving he a wacking great orgasm. Treat a girl well and they wont care how big your penis is. :)
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 That is at the smaller end of the range HOWEVER of course you shouldn't feel ashamed. There ARE some immature or nasty girls that will use it as a way to attack you but bullies will use anything that YOU perceive as a weakness in yourself to attack you.
The vast majority of women care far more about other things and I'm not just talking about wishy-washy touchy-feely relationship stuff. Even when it comes to sex most women are more concerned about how you treat them, about your confidence, about how you talk to them, about how you use your mouth and your hands than about how big you are. Seriously, if you give her several orgasms before your dick even gets involved then she is going to think that you are a great lover.
Unfortunately there is a lot of "stuff" out there in the media and in our social consciousness that gives men good cause to feel that bigger is better and it is NOT easy to overcome that but if you don't then you are going to be lacking in confidence and you are going to come over as a wussy (because of your lack of confidence) and no girl wants to have sex with a wussy.
Bear in mind that whilst a really big penis can look impressive in the locker room it can be more of a curse than a blessing. A good friend of mine is huge (when we were at school together it used to escape from the bottom of his running shorts during cross country!) But over the years since I've heard him complaining many times that it just doesn't fit anywhere!
The karma sutra tells us that men and women each fall into one of 3 categories size-wise and that sex tends to be most satisfying when we are properly matched up.
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reader, Spear  +, writes (15 February 2010):
I doubt it will get much bigger the average male penis size is about 6 inches or roughly 15 cm in length the smallest being 2 cm so hey ure huge in comparison next time she teases u tell her to swing by your place and show her what u can do with it.
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reader, abcdefgh +, writes (15 February 2010):
it is normal to feel embarraced at your age
not all girls are like that and you should find a girl who appreciates you and doesnt laugh
your penis doesnt stop growing until ur 18 so you have time
but as i always say its not about the size its how you use it
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