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female
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41-50,
*radzwifey
writes: I want to know how I can earn my boyfriend's trust back. I slept with two different men when he was incarcerated, two different times. How do I get the love and trust and him not cussing me? I love him so much and I don't know why I did it... I just did! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2010):
With a huge amount of work that might not even pay off. There is a reason you did it, so you're either not telling us, or you've not thought about it and faced up to it yet. That's the first point. You need to know why you did it. Also, you need to be totally open with him. That means no secret texts, all emails open etc. This will take a lot of time, but you need to know why you cheated, and you will have to really work hard to prove you're worth it. Be open, be honest, and really reassure him that he is the one.
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