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writes: Is it weird to not like making out with someone? I've only made out with less than a handful of guys, and they were all during relationships. They've all gone the similar way...it's cool at first and I don't mind making out, and then eventually it's just boring and I prefer just pecks or something. I'm in the same predicament with my current boyfriend right now. He likes making out but I'm really not a fan of it. Sure, it could be signs of a fading relationship once again, but other than that and his habit of sometimes being too clingy, everything is fine. Has anyone else experienced a similar situation, or does anyone have any helpful advice Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Janety +, writes (28 December 2010):
maybe it's because your feelings are not that strong.. when you find a guy that makes you hot, and you really start to care about him, you will like making out with him.. maybe they weren't good at it:D
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reader, Love-Wisely +, writes (28 December 2010):
I had a GF who straight up told me she didn't like kissing and preferred to skip to the other stuff. At first I was baffled. I couldn't even get excited without making out. It was not a matter of technique because I asked. She told me she "never really liked kissing." After a while, I got use to it. We broke up, but ever since I don't enjoy it half as much as I did. It has to be a very mutual enjoyment and you mentioned that he is too clingy. That can definitely shine through, and make kissing "showy" and unnatural.
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