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writes:Am I the only one down in the dumps for playing the hard to get game and lost because I took it to far? She's with him now. I regret never telling her I love her. Should I tell her or is it to late? She got engaged to him Christmas Day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): My advice is let her go gracefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): She has moved on and is apparently happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): YO HEY HELP OP OUT PLS: What is the name of the song and artist?????? The link doesn't work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): Let your suffering heart speak 3 take off your armor..tell your soulmate you love her and want a lifetime to prove it ~/~Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.carpe diem !( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Soh3r4WRPyYsend her this song)
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Don't tell her. She has moved on and is apparently happy. This happened to my brother 19 years ago. A girl he previously dated called him the night before the wedding and told him how much she loved him and that he was making a mistake. That she felt they were meant for each other... It only served to make everyone feel awkward. I still think about it when I see her.
And it happened to my son-in-law. The girl has been really rude to my daughter and it is a really uncomfortable situation. My advice is let her go gracefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): I wouldnt tell her. You had every chance to do that when you were with her. But you chose to play mind games. Probably rebuffed her advances, left her confused, maybe even hurt. That isnt what you do when you love someone.
Playing with peoples feelings is not a good idea. If i were you, id try and put it all to bed now without disturbing the couple.
And when you find yourself falling for someone again, Be honest and dont play games. Theres no getting around the fact, you will always be far better off being genuine with people.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 December 2010):
Not a chance, my friend. I'm afraid you're too late. If you respect this woman, then don't place her in an awkward position where she will have to end all contact with you. She's an engaged woman now, and the chances that anything between you could work are effectively none. Even if the miracle happened and she did dump this other man for you, given that you and her never really worked it out before, it probably won't work now either.
You need to move on. I think it would be a bit cruel to her and this other guy if you made a move now, and I think you'd only be setting yourself up for massive failure anyway.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 You could but it would do little unless she still feels strongly for you in which case this whole engagement is almost aimless and prone to disaster. You did make a mistake and I am afraid it was a fatal one, if you choose to tell her, be prepared for the worst. I think it is best if you settle for her friendship and just move on.
I hope that helps.
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reader, zombiegurl007 +, writes (27 December 2010):
No there is still some time trust me. But u have to let her now like now or you'll lose her forever. Don't approach her is a sad look either instead more like a "is that the best u can do" attitude. Hey that how my fiance won me from my previous partner
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