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writes:Hello!I started dating 2 months ago this very hot guy, who is so perfect. He's a lawyer, he's very beautiful in his mid-30s, he's wealthy, has a nice house and on top of that he's very nice and generous...The thing is last week, I surprised him putting his underwear in his bedroom. His underwear confused me cause it was a silver latex tight thong. He didn't put it to impress me. He put it to go to work!He didn't know I was looking so I went later in his bedroom and found out in his closet that only had tight thongs as underwear...We never had sex yet! But I'm confused and a bit scared at the same time by his kinky side...I need advices to know why a serious and perfect man like that would wear that kind of undies and should I be scared? Thanks...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Open communication! He probably enjoys sex. But always speak honestly especially before your first sexual experience. Ask him what he expects from you and what he likes! Don't be shy.
if you can't trust him or be open with him you shouldn't be having sex with him anyway!
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reader, Abella +, writes (28 December 2010):
 It's always a shock when we come across something that we never imagined would happen to us or would see.
And yes it is an unusual choice for a guy.
But he's not alone, or the item wouldn't be manufactured.
But at the start of a relationship, as we build trust with a person, something startling, like this discovery, makes a person question if they know new person. Sometimes we assume things, of the new person, because of other things.
But slightly different interests and preferences can make a person more interesting, rather than cookie cutter boring.
I'd find a guy who volunteered in an orphanage in Peru during his annual vacation more interesting than a guy who stayed home watching tv during his vacation.
Your guy is an intelligent man and he knows it's not illegal to wear non boring underwear.
I've heard stories of even Judges having similar secrets. Perhaps it's the rigidity of the legal area where outwardly there is so much need to conform.
Lawyers can't be almost remember the law, or be almost correct when they prepare a case, or they might lose a case.
Lawyers work long hours. All that puts huge pressure constantly on them and their staff. People's lives can be affected, if they get it wrong..
As a result some seek release in sport or hobbies.
Some collect art as a release from law.
Perhaps it gives him a mental lift, that gives him confidence when he wears such underwear.
It's his little LEGAL pleasure that hurts no one.
But it also gives a clue to character. This man is not someone scared of his own shadow. He's assured, confident and not afraid to express himself, even if he is discreet about the way he does it.
Some of these traits that also probably make him a successful lawyer.
Lawyers can't express their personality in wearing clothing that is too flamboyant in Court or to see clients, and have to adhere to all manner of strict rules, in Court.
Personally I like my man in very colourful boxer shorts with great designs on the material, but my man doesn't.
And I know most girls love wearing all manner of lacey lingerie. Pink, blue, mauve, silver, black etc
It doesn't make us bad - it's just underwear that's not boring.
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