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*miley
writes:i love my boyfriend truely. N i wish 2 spnt the rest f my lif with him. The only problem is we are of different tribes n my parents dont like the people of his tribe. What shall i do. And my family doesnt know about him yet. M afraid to tell my parents about him, they would never accept him. Any suggestions plz..! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): I´m from Germany where this is not as much a problem as it seems to be in your Country/Region or the US and such.
I´m also a guy, and therefore i might therefore understand even less what you´re going through.
But you should defend your own feelings. Noone has the right to tell you who to love and simply saying that you can´t love another person because of their origins or Family or even race is not acceptable for me.
It may be a hard decision but if you are sure about your feelings then stand against all objections.
I Also agree with petina.
I´m sure there are those in your family you´re very close to and you can trust with this. If you´re not alone you may get the rest to listen to you and understand your feelings.
Maybe your Parents or grandparents had similar problems when they started their relationship. Try to find out and use these facts if possible.
Sukhad mouka ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): No matter how much close we are as new lovers but I feel my parents are much more closer than this new one, whom I met recently and planning to break the parents heart, if i was there before falling in love with someone who is different tribe I would see my parents interest-this is my opinion I don't know,how you feel but still I say be more on parents side otherwise it will be future pain
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reader, Ymiley +, writes (29 December 2010):
Ymiley is verified as being by the original poster of the question thnx a lot petina, bt theres realy no1 whome i can with. Its my fault that i'm not close with them. But anyway thanx, i can ur advic!!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Is'nt there anyone at all in your family who you could express your feelings to about this. An aunt or an uncle. They may be able to help you and give you advice on this as they will know how others in the family will be thinking. I'ts always a hard one is this and so to get support from people in the family is always important. That will show you whether to pursue this relationship or let it go.
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