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writes:What do I do when 2 guys are fighting over me? They are both cute but they hate each other. D and I have been friends for two years and he's moving next year. F and I have dated 3 times before and even though we are not dating now, he still tells me he loves me about 10 times every day and keeps on asking me out every day and says we will last forever. But my friends say F needs some work done if I am to go out with him again. How do I let D down carefully? F got me 2 Xmas presents and they were so cute. He said he'll even die for me and jump in front of a train for me:) I need some help on how to tell him off without hurting our friendship. F is also the new guy a couple months ago.... HELP on how to easily tell him off!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): heyyy ur a trini.me toooo! anyway..it sounds like u have a history with both guys.so u should know them well enough to know which one you would want.dont let your friends tell you what to do though.you can listen to their suggestions and keep them in mind and stuff but when it comes to the decision do what you want.you said u and D have been friends for 2 yrs,so im guessing you know each other pretty well.if you really want to reject him then just tell him you like being friends with him and that you dont wanna do anything to mess that up.buttt u also mentioned u and F dated 3 times previously,and i dont know ....if it didnt work out the first 3 times are you sure u wanna go there a 4th? u need to really think about this so u dont make a decision and regret it.GOOD LUCK!!
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reader, auto  +, writes (28 December 2010):
Its almost impossible but if he is a nice guy you could break it to him gently but if he gets all mad just tell to shut up and be a man or if he gets sad you could tell him youre sorry and tell him you could still be friends.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 hi
just be honest. make sure you dont make them feel as if you are playing them against each other. make a choice based on how you feel and which boy treats you best, not the one your friends say you should go out with. as long you are nice to the one you are letting down, i am sure he will understand and if he is upset will forgive you soon enough and will stay friends with you
xx
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