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He's playing me, I know, but I love him

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Question - (27 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *razybeast writes:

to put it simple i'm in love with my best friend, again! i have known him for quite a while now.

After a few months of knowing him i became attracted, but ignored this and that soon moved onto hardcore crush mode. Then i couldn't stand to be apart from him, he was playing me. He even admitted it, because i said i liked him.

So he stopped and i stopped liking him After a few weeks of seperation, then a week ago all the flirtyness came back.

i mean how couldn't it... he KISSED me!

So times have gone back to normal, with me being an idiot when ever he is around and being super into him.

And he has now got me wondering, is he doing this for attention or could there be genuine feelings involved. We get so close to each other, anyone could feel the sexual tension.

i know for a fact he has been spreading rumours that we are going out and such, i told him to stop if it isnt true but he kept on saying stuff.

He hasn't had a girlfriend since i've been wanting him again either, mainly because he has no time, after spending most the hours of the day with me.

what can i do i'm at the point of crying for nothing :'

Xx Beasty xX

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (28 December 2010):

petina1 agony auntHe obviously knows you are there for him and you care for him. I wonder if he's there because he is at a loose end. He obviously likes you for something but that's not good enough for you. Try to be strong and keep him at arms length until he can assure you that it's all gueniune because if you can't then yes you will be played.You could try making out that you are not that into him, maybe if he thinks you won't be there for him some day he may up his game.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010):

Sounds complicated!!!! I think if you like him and are alone with him you should Kiss him and then just ask. Are we together? Why shouldn't you ask. Sounds to me he likes you and you sure like him then why shouldnt you be together. To me it sounds like the perfect match. Hope evrything works out and that you to end up together

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