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writes:About 7 months ago i met this guy online (lives out of town) he came out we had a nice time and ended up sleeping together. He then returned two weeks later but I didn't feel it, and told him i didn't see things progressing. We decided to be FWB as we had a very strong sexual chemistry.He left and things calmed down and then I started missing him (or the sex) I don't know. But, we continued to chat and text and slowly get to know each other. I like him (sometimes) but he is very different from me and not like anyone I have ever dated before. Although, technically we aren't dating as he's out of town. It's been 4 months and he's coming into town tomorrow and we are planning on seeing each other. I am nervous that I am not going to like him when I see him and that I have built him up in my head. I may have forgotten all the little things that bothered me about him when he was here last; or I am nervous; or the fact that he's younger than me (7 years); or I have been out of a relationship for so long I don't know how to dealMy friends say go with my gut. But, I am so confused I don't know what my gut is saying. Once it's saying go with the flow other and enjoy your time with him (it's not like you are getting married) and other's it says why bother?Dazed and confuse
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reader, eddie85  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 I agree, this sounds like a fwb minimally and at best a long distance relationship.i'd see where it goes when he visits and play it from there. You also need to make up your mind as to what you want (and see what he is thinking too)
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (27 December 2010):
I agree, this sounds like a Den minimally and at best a long distance relationship.See where it goes when he visits and play it from there. You also need to make up your mind as to what you want (and see what he is thinking too)
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