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writes:i'm 17 yr old girl and i'm in love with a guy truly and deeply from 2 yrs ago. We were friends for 1 yr ago. Altogether i've know him from 3 yrs ago. i want this relationship to develop into marriage.The only problem betwen us is that he doesn't share anything with me. Not daily happenings around him, not his problems, not his family matters.As once i broke his trust when we were friends. But now I'm more than a friend. Yet still he is scared to share something with me.I know he loves me a lot, but he doesn't care me. Our love is along distance relationship. I'm staying in chhenai and he is in bangalore.i'm quite worried about this. But i know there's no other girl than me in his life...Everyone says trust should be there whenthere is love...but???????? i share with him everything, but he doesn't...I can't have break up with him. i love him and I'm really confused about thisWhether he loves me truly or just like, I don't know. What should i do please? Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 If you are both long-distance, that makes it more difficult to have a relationship.
Let me ask you: how do you communicate? Do you talk on the phone, send emails, texts, use Skype? If so, how often?
You could encourage him by saying you'd love to hear how his day went; how's his family, things like that and see how he responds.
You say you once broke his trust when you were friends. What did you do? What did he say to you about what happened? Or did he just say nothing and act distant or cold? Possibly you need to talk about it - or apologize - but maybe he's over it now. Impossible for us to advise you without knowing a little more as to what happened.
You say he loves you a lot, but doesn't "care me." (I guess you mean he doesn't care about you???)
Well, if you love someone, you DO care about one another's well-being and whether they are happy, or experiencing difficulties (not necessarily difficulties connected with the relationship - could be difficulty with school, or work, other friends, family).
If you'll write again and tell us a little more, we'll be better able to help you.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): No one here can tell you if he truly loves you. You are the one that is suppose to know that. You can talk to him about every problem you mentioned. Just ask him . Like how was his day and so on, he will probably open up to you, sooner or later.
Most guys don't like to share their problems or emotions with anyone else, not even their partners. Eventhough they are in love.
Long distance relationships can be hard. How long ago did u see him in person?
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