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What to do about an overly clingy selfish girlfriend?

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Question - (27 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2010)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a male and I have returned to my home country to visit my family. Throughout my relationship with my girlfriend she has constantly grown more clingy and selfish. She gets annoyed when I tell my family that i love them. She doesnt like me speaking to them and she insists that i only love her and not anyone else. she is twenty years old yet she is still acting like a child. This has grown worse since i came back for the school holidays to my home country and she couldnt come along. She calls me all day and gets mad when i want to go out with my friends. I havent been home in over a year. She is expecting me to stay at home the whole holidays to call her on skype. I am not exaggerating when i say the whole holiday. as in morning til the night. I've been doing it for almost 2 weeks and im getting tired of explaining why i have to do anything. why do you need to see your friends? why do you need to drive your mom to the mall( my mother has an injured back which she knows about)? she expects me to ignore the whole world and just talk to her. I really need advice on what to do. thanks guys

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (28 December 2010):

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she sounds like she has got MAJOR insecurity issues. do you want to be with her? does she have good points also? weigh up the good and the bad qualities and then make your descision. the things you have told us about her are NOT normal behavour adn i hope that she gets help for this coz if not she is gonna have a very unhappy life ahead of her! explain to her that you find her behaviour intolerable and she is ruining the relationship. see what her response is. i dont know if your relationship is a sexual one but i hope that she does not become pregnant because unless she addresses WHY she is like this and changes it, i feel like she is on borrowed time with you isnt she? there is only so much jealousy and clingyness a person can accept before patience runs completely out

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010):

You're a grown man; you should be able to do what you want to do (within reason, of course). Seriously, going to see your family or hanging out with your friends is not that big of a deal, and a 'normal' girlfriend would even encourage you to. Basically, if you're not even allowed to tell your mother you love her, you need to break up with her right now. You can do SO much better, and the longer you stay with her, the worse it's going to get.

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