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writes:First off, ilove my boyfriend. Ireally do 3 he's truly amazing ! He makes me feel like I'm the only girl for him. He definately goes above and beyond for me. The only problem is that he's not the PDA type. Imean he is physically and all that, but not with words and such.He tells me he loves me with all his heart and a lot of sweet stuff, but only when we are both talking about it. Iwish he would tell me sweet things out of the blue. To tell me his feelings, not because ibrought up the subject, but just because he feels like it. 3idont want to tell him though. Iwant it to come from the heart ; when HE wants to do it, but he won't :/ how can iget him to do this ? Reply to this Question
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reader, xanthic +, writes (28 December 2010):
 You can't. Be glad with what you have, expecting more from a person not willing to give more will only lead to disappointment.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 December 2010):
You can't. You can't change him from the person he is now. He has to change himself. If he wanted to change, or thought he could change, then he would. As it is, he's still young and has a lot to learn. You have to let him develop himself. You can't make him change, or you'll change him into someone you don't like and wind up losing him.
Have patience. When he's secure, when he's ready, he'll say those things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): He may just be shy, thinking that if he says something to you, you'll think he's being mushy or funny.
Say things to him out of the blue, he may get the hint eventualy, or if you trust one of his friends enough not to tell everybody, ask one of his friends to hint to him that he needs to compliment you more.
Maybe get him to put a necklace on you or somthing, he might say how nice it looks on you. Or try wearing something you normally wouldn't to see if he compliments you on how differant you look.
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