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writes:My friend and i have been messing around for about two years now. I'm bi. We both have had girlfriends in between us fooling around. i really like him and feel like we should be together. We have amazing sex. But he doesn't kiss me. i mean it's not like i ask and he says no, we just don't kiss. i really want to. He has a girlfriend at the moment. We're supposed to meet up in a few days to fool around. i don't care about his girlfriend, i just really like him. so my questions are 1. How can i get him to feel the same way 2. How can i get him to kiss me.
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reader, Nathan1  +, writes (28 December 2010):
You need to give him a cooling off. It sounds like he's having the best of both worlds and he's also cheating on his girlfriend and you are also hurting her. This is very messy. You should look elsewhere for sex, if thats all it means but it sounds like you are ready for a more meaningful relationship
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 December 2010):
 1. You can only hope he has feelings for you. There is no way to MAKE someone feel anything. Well, I suppose you could inflict pain, but you get my point I think.
2. Try kissing him. Perhaps he'll kiss you back.
Really though, if he has a GF, then you're just helping facilitate a cheater. I know you like him, but if he cheats on his GF to fool around with you, he'll do the same thing to you. People who easily violate trust shouldn't be trusted.
Also, a lack of kissing shows a lack of intimacy. To him it's likely the sex acts, not the connection. So he is using you for sex, but doesn't want anything more. If he did, then you'd be experiencing that tenderness you look for with kisses.
Nope, that guy gives me a bad feeling. I think you'll just end up hurt. Be careful.
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