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writes:I'm an idiot...the other night I decided to have sex with my EX boyfriend...I'm only 13 years old and he's 15. I don't even know how it happened I was just supposed to hang out with him cause even if we broke up we're still like bestfriends. But i don't know...things just got..out of hand. And lately i haven't been myself. The sex was unprotected and I'm not on the pill. Then get this! I saw him the other day go into his house with another girl. His neighbor (my bff) told me that when she walked out her hair was all screwed up and since it's a condo she heard the bed continuously creak. Hmm... Wonder what they were doing. But, I just don't know what to do! I mean what do I say to him! What happens now?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): ok well thats harsh but hey hes not ur bf so.... oh well ur freind was doin nothin wrong an ur 13 so use a pill or something
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (28 December 2010):
 It sounds like you still have feelings for him or you wouldnt care that he was with another girl. If it makes you feel better (which it would me) Id hang out with him, and if he is the guy that every1 says he is(on here) then he will try something. Thats when you have the chance to stop him, and simply let him know that you wont be another girl he hooks up with. You are better then that, and youd rather have a guy who realized that. He can continue to have sex with whoever it is that he wants, but it wont be you. Thats only to make you feel better. If I was in your spot I'd feel hurt and to make that better I'd want him to know that I knew what he did and that I was ok and strong without him. But in reality who he does is not your business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): I think you should stay away from him, but to be honest, I think you're WAY WAY WAY to young to be having sex. Especially unprotected sex. At thirteen my friend had sex, got pregnant.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Yup, you got used. What do you say to him? That's up to you, but remember you're to blame for having sex with him too. Unless he forced you, but that doesn't sound like the case.
I think you should find better friends. This guy just sounds like a player.
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reader, feelingsputtogether +, writes (27 December 2010):
 Well you have a problem. If you had unprotected sex you know what the consequenses may be. Besides if your bff said tht she heard the bed continuously creaking and the other girls hair was screwed up then your bff has nothing better to do. I was your age and we would say anything to our frinds when it came to other people our ex's were seeing to see thier reactions. If you and your ex had sex and he's now doing it with someone else why should it matter to you. He's your ex. You should make sure that you are not preggers you are too young to be having a baby and you need to make sure that you are clean meaning he didn't give you some kind of sexually transmitted disease, just because you know him it doesn't mean you know what happens below the belt. Good luck to you.
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reader, Molly9945 +, writes (27 December 2010):
What happens now? You get a pregnancy and STD test, then stay abstenent because you obviously you are too immature to have sex if you can't say no, didn't use contraception, and just "let it happen"
As for this boy having sex with another girl, that's his choice. You guys are not going out as you said, so he is not cheating. Don't say anything to him because it's not your business who he has a relationship with unless he feels like sharing it. Even if you are best friends. I didn't openly share my relationship with my absolute best friend till I was comfortable, so he's not doing you wrong by not telling you. Just leave it alone, let him live his life, and PLEASE see a doctor and get tested for STDs and pregnancy!!
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reader, 1DrLove +, writes (27 December 2010):
It didn't mean anything to him for you two to have sex that day so it shouldn't mean anything to you either.
But you are better than that. SO don't give away sex to just anybody.
Also, I like your wording. 'Decided' is what you did. Next time maybe decide different or use protection or something.
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