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writes: my ex told me he had a girl visiting for a few months and she will be going home once the visa is up. We spoke about this June 11th or so and he said 2 and a half months she will be gone so its not a permanent thing.Has it been two and a half months? i want to call him but i was hoping she was gone by now. My birthday passed a week ago and he called at night and left me a voicemail. I decided to call back while away at the time and told him where I was.July 10th is one month and then august 10th is another...so maybe she left already? I really want to call him tonight because i want to talk to him but not sure if i should wait another week. I feel pretty sad right now wanting to talk to him and ask if we can start talking more like we were and get together. I think once we spend time together we will see what could happen.A few people say I should wait another few days to a week before calling so i don't look too eager and i am not calling him so soon after he called me. They also say its important to not wait too long either. What does everyone think? Any thoughts besides forgetting him? Reply to this Question
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reader, answerfromtheheart  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 I think you want to hear something that you yourself know is not the reality.
I believe that even though your heart wants him, your logic is telling you that you should not be with him. Otherwise you would not ask: "Any thoughts besides forgetting him?"
A girl is designed to be loved, if a guy is not giving love, he is not the guy who deserves your love.
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reader, SueZ  +, writes (24 August 2010):
SO it sucks when you still love your ex... and want to get back with him.
Has he given you any signs that he feels the same? IT seems to me that having another girl live with you is a pretty strong sign that you don't want to go back.
As for wait/ don't wait... it's all b.s. IF he wants to be with you, a day or two either way is not going to mess things up. No one wants someone that is too eager... so don't hound him... and have your ears wide open for signs he does not want what you want.. because that is a very real possibility, and it is best you have your heart ready for that.
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