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writes:im am so confused! i have a boyfriend of 2 years yet i feel like i want to be single! i like attension of other men and going out partying with my friends and he likes to stay in n just see his friends..am i being selfish? or should i just i just bare with it in the hope i will grow out of it?thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 You're young and want to be single. What's keeping your from acting on that?
Of course your boyfriend has his point of view, but as long as he doesn't mind you sowing your wild oats, there should be no issue. If he does, then you need to look at why you're in the relationship.
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reader, notebook123 +, writes (25 August 2010):
you're still so young! be single and enjoy it! two years is a long time at your age. i'm not that much older than you, but I had been in several consecutive serious relationships from the time i was 18 until i was 27. my relationships ranged from 1-4 years.
i broke up with my last boyfriend almost two years ago, i've been single ever since and i'm happier now than i ever have been. i can do whatever i want, whenever i want, with whoever i want! we all need that kind of freedom at some point in our lives...now is the time or you may never get it!
if you two were meant to be, you'll wind up back together one way or another!
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): Okay the last sentence of my post is irrelevant, ignore it please. I got into a fight last Saturday night with a "don't take no for an answer" dance floor grinder guy. I'm still a bit pissed about that and it came out in my answer, my apologies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): I don't understand your question. You want him to go out and enjoy the attention of other men? You want him to watch you get male attention, what?
I don't understand what you're asking because frankly it's the going out and partying all the time, that is the thing we grow out of. Not spending time with our friends.
I'm not sure what to tell you to be honest because I don't know what you're asking. Perhaps you should be single so you can get with these other men, I mean if you're really looking for the party animal type guy then go for it, just know that a lot of us guys when we're in a relationship have no need to go out partying because we're not looking for women.
We can have just as much fun drinking at a friends place, where there'll be no fights, no drama and a lot of us don't exactly want to dancing either. Plus watching some random guy grind our girlfriend on the dance floor is not exactly fun.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 August 2010):
The best thing you can do is be single and have your fun. You won't grow out of what you're feeling. You'll just come to resent your boyfriend. So, go out, have your fun and when you're ready to settle, find a guy and settle.
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